Friday February 03, 2012 at 13:14

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M.I.A. is so fucking cool.

Friday February 03, 2012 at 12:51

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Wednesday February 01, 2012 at 22:04

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Anonymous asked: Any advice for someone looking to write as a career? I majored in something completely different and after I graduated I fell out of love with what I was doing. I've only had a few (non-paid) gigs so I don't even know where to start looking. Any resources you recommend? Are there any you feel are a waste of time? Any help would be much appreciated.

Like I’ve said before, I don’t consider myself a writer. I feel like I’m more of a storyteller. I don’t live to write. Maybe it’s just because I feel most comfortable writing in a conversational, modern tone, and I think that ~real writing~ is intelligent and viscerally referential and… can often be inaccessible. I never want to be inaccessible.

N E Wayz, no matter what you call yourself, if you feel like you’re good at communicating via the written word and you’d like to get paid for it, start doing it wherever you can. What websites do you like? Who’s writing style do you admire? Nowadays you can pay attention to many different writers’ careers thanks to Googling their name. See who the writers you admire work for and don’t be afraid to reach out to them and ask how they got their jobs/what their tips are. If you’re in the same city as them, email them asking to meet IRL so they can brag about themselves for an hour. I have yet to meet someone who writes for a living who doesn’t love that. Plus, let’s start fucking hanging out IRL again, humans.

Write about what you love. Tell the stories you want to tell. Something I always try to tell myself is “Get weird.” Whether it’s professionally or personally, it’s your voice that only you possess. As much as I love Molls and Christine and Caragh and Alan and so, so many other writers on Tumblr, their voices are not mine and I will never sound like them.

My most excited moments when writing down a story are the times when I ask myself, “Oh, I don’t know if I should include this.” That’s when I know I NEED to. Tell your whole truth. #GETWEIRD

Wednesday February 01, 2012 at 21:42

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Anonymous asked: Hey Nicole, I need some advice. My ex and I had an on/off again relationship for about 9 months (it took me that long to realize he didnt really know what he wanted and was a pretty selfish person in general). Then it took me another 4 months to get myself together and feel happy again. Now all of a sudden he's been calling me. I finally called back but now we're in a game of phone tag. I dont want to be with him anymore but I dont really know what to say to him. What should I do??

You answered your question, sister: You don’t want to be with him anymore. What you need to say to him is the truth. Tell him how you feel. It hurts sometimes. The truth is so mean, let’s be honest. So try to phrase it in a way that won’t totally kill him. But the crux of the matter is it seems like you’ve moved on. Don’t waste any more energy on this.

Tuesday January 31, 2012 at 14:25

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VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR MEN:
Why do you hate buns/top knots so much?

VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR MEN:

Why do you hate buns/top knots so much?

Tuesday January 31, 2012 at 12:52

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Monday January 30, 2012 at 17:05

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Everyone wants everyone on the internet to like photos of their face and bodies, I get it. That immediate feedback is addicting, I get it. It’s just more of a life lesson about reassurance, you know? Like, Kim Kardashian is so fucking pretty and she still calls out for people to tell her this over and over and over several times a day.
Just another reminder to kill your/my ego. It’s not your responsibility to make sure other people find you attractive. They either do or they don’t. On to the next.

Everyone wants everyone on the internet to like photos of their face and bodies, I get it. That immediate feedback is addicting, I get it. It’s just more of a life lesson about reassurance, you know? Like, Kim Kardashian is so fucking pretty and she still calls out for people to tell her this over and over and over several times a day.

Just another reminder to kill your/my ego. It’s not your responsibility to make sure other people find you attractive. They either do or they don’t. On to the next.

Monday January 30, 2012 at 16:14

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This post was reblogged from Ruined Childhood.

Sunday January 29, 2012 at 17:10

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Looks like this girl went to the same modeling school I did.

Looks like this girl went to the same modeling school I did.

Sunday January 29, 2012 at 13:12

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Anonymous asked: You give off Latina/Hispanic lady vibes. What's your ethnicity?

You have no idea how much that means to me. :’ )

But alas, I’m mostly Irish and Italian with a little Swedish, German, and English. Or whatever. Just another whitey.

Sunday January 29, 2012 at 13:00

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I think we can all learn something from this lil one I snapped on the train. HBIC at 7 years old? Shoo.

I think we can all learn something from this lil one I snapped on the train. HBIC at 7 years old? Shoo.

Thursday January 26, 2012 at 13:45

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Wednesday January 25, 2012 at 9:32

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Anyone?

Anyone?

Tuesday January 24, 2012 at 13:08

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Googled these to make sure they were clementines. The leaves threw me off! Give me a break, I’m from America — we never see fruits and vegetables that actually resemble the environment they’re grown in.

Googled these to make sure they were clementines. The leaves threw me off! Give me a break, I’m from America — we never see fruits and vegetables that actually resemble the environment they’re grown in.

Monday January 23, 2012 at 22:29

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I’ve been coming home after work lately and dancing in flattering lighting and full makeup in my room to songs like David Guetta featuring Jessie J., “Repeat” and Rihanna’s “We Found Love” via Tracy Anderson’s Metamophosis that I pirated. It’s really fun and makes you feel so good but I never want another human to witness this.

I’ve been coming home after work lately and dancing in flattering lighting and full makeup in my room to songs like David Guetta featuring Jessie J., “Repeat” and Rihanna’s “We Found Love” via Tracy Anderson’s Metamophosis that I pirated. It’s really fun and makes you feel so good but I never want another human to witness this.

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